Value, PUA, INNER GAME.

You all have something to share with each other. It is called your humanity. Noone can take ownership of your perspective, your personality or your energy. These gifts are yours to keep and are the true reasons for why people are attracted to you. Some times I feel sad - even disillusioned that someone could reject the value that I give on a daily basis to everyone I am close to, they are missing out on a connection with somebody.

When I was much younger than I am now I was a very sensitive child; I'd cry, scream, moan, complain about everything that I didn't like. People were confusing for me as I matured, still retaining that naive sensitivity that I believe I was cursed with - then disowned it out of spite for other peoples insensitivity and vindictiveness. It has only in the past couple of months in the journey of my self-development that I have allowed this to resurface, and what a relief! I am not longer carrying this false ego structure: I no longer need reasons or excuses for why I can or cannot feel good about myself, I simply feel good all the time. I now relish in this sensitvity and powerful empathy that I have with people, it is my strength. With this sensitivity and empathetic insight you may inspire people, lead people into adventures, understand their perspective as an individual and connect on a deep, instrinic level which is a unique experience for every person.

To me, this is what game is. This is what we should all strive for as individuals: the connection to when we didn't need to have rationalizations for why we think we're valuable as people, objectivity should have no say in how you feel about yourself, perhaps there's no logic in feeling good about yourself, maybe you just choose to feel good about yourself. it's possible. It is one of the most liberating sensations in your mind when you can truly "be yourself" without fear of judgment, persecution or rejection. You simply know that you offer value to people and if someone takes negatively to your approach or your prescence it is bluntly their problem, not yours. Once you realize that noone has a say in your personal happiness except yourself, when the foundations of your self-esteem is harboured in your prescence, perspective and individuality this is where amazing things happen, because true magic is believing in yourself.